I think that people don’t realize the harder you try for a person the more creepier and less wanted you become. This isn’t a fairytale, no one is going to be swept away by your grotesque grandiose attempts at getting their attention. Just remember the less you have of something the more valuable it is, that’s why gold is high in demand.
good relationship: awww baby you are amazing and perfect and just everything I always ever wanted. I love, miss, need you. you are incredible
better relationship: I recognize that you are a human being with imperfection and flaws, but I love being with you regardless and spending time. you are a beautiful person to me because of who you are and how you think. you make me happy.